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![]() There is strength in surrender. Never take recovery for granted. With God's help, even our failures can be useful in our recovery. NUTS Not Using The Steps C H A N G E = Choosing Honesty Allows New Growth Every day B E S T = Been Enjoying Sobriety Today? F I N E = Free, Independent, New and Energetic T H I N K = The Happiness I Never Knew S O B E R = Son Of a Basket, Everything's Real A A's - R - U S = Alcoholics Anonymous Recovery Unity Service S T E P S = Solutions To Every Problem in Sobriety A S A P = Always Say A Prayer F I N E = Free, Independent, New and Energetic B O G G L E = Bad Or Good, God Loves Everyone The only thing you get from sitting on the pity pot is a ring around your butt and nobody to show it to! --Anonymous In A.A., it does not matter what our material condition is, what matters greatly is our spiritual condition. F A I L U R E = Fearful, Arrogant, Insecure, Lonely, Uncertain, Resentful, Empty. G O D = Good Orderly Direction E G O = Easing God Out A C T I O N = Any Change Toward Improving One's Nature. S O B E R = Spiritually On Beam; Everything's Right H A L T = Hope, Acceptance, Love, Tolerance C A R E = Comforting And Reassuring Each other One of the main differences between an active alcoholic and a recovering alcoholic can be expressed as a matter of tense;, the active alcoholic tends to live in the future or in the past, the sober alcoholic strives to live in the present. We in A.A. have the privilege of living two lives in one lifetime, one life of drunkenness, failure and defeat; then, through the grace of God and A.A., another life of sobriety, happiness and usefulness. If we don't introduce the newcomer to the Big Book, how will he or she know what they don't know. Surrender and willingness are the keys to our recovery. If you claim to be sober; look it, act it, sound it particularly at meetings since we have a program of attraction. If we are not part of the solution we are part of the problem. Reality does not change; our perception of it does when we sober up. Doing what is written in the Big Book produces the promises in the Big Book. One drink is too many and a thousand not enough. "Show me a grateful alcoholic -- an i'll show you a sober one" -- the late Dick N. A N O N Y M O U S = Actions, Not Our Names, Yield Maintenance Of Unity and Service. A C T I O N = Any Change Toward Improving One's Nature S W A T = Surrender, Willingness, Acceptance, and Trust H O P E = Happy Our Program Exists H O P E = Hang On; Pray Every day A S A P = Always Say A Prayer D E N I A L = Don't Even Notice I Am Lying. F E A R = Forever Escaping And Retreating H O W = Honest, Open, and Willing It is better to offer help too soon then risk being too late. Alcoholism does not take a vacation when we do. Wouldn't we be better off if we shared experiences rather then opinions.
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AA gives us an opportunity to recreate ourselves, with God's help, one day at a time. --Rufus K. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. --Franklin D. Roosevelt We stay sober and clean together - one day at a time! God says that each of us is worth loving. |
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Alcoholism is a disease: an obsession of the mind that compels us to drink, and a sensitivity of the body that condemns us to go mad or die if we keep on.
An alcoholic is in no greater peril than when he takes sobriety for granted. The essence of all growth is a willingness to change for the better. An alcoholic/addict is a person who wants to be held while he's isolating. A definition of sobriety is the ability to live comfortably, peacefully and joyously with ourselves. A.A. is truly God's creation. Every meeting has its own atmosphere and personality, if you don't like one, go to another. Our recovery involves coming to terms with ourselves as we really are. On alternatives to A.A. for the alcoholic; death if you're lucky, insanity if you're not--take your pick. A C T I O N = Any Change To Improve Our Natures H E L P = Hope, Encouragement, Love, and Patience P R I D E = Pretty Ridiculous Individual Directing Everything Y A N A = You Are Not Alone. D U E S = Desperately Using Everything but Sobriety F E A R = Forgetting Everything's All Right B A T H = Behavior, Attitude, Thinking, and Habits T R U S T = Try Relying Upon Steps and Traditions F I T = Faith, Intuition, and Trust N U T S = Not Using The Steps T H I N K = The Happiness I Never Knew G I F T S = Getting It From The Steps B E S T = Been Enjoying Sobriety Today? S O B E R = Son Of a Basket, Everything's Real It isn't important how many times we fall--as long as we get up one more time. ISM = I sponsor myself When something needs done in our groups, let's quit waiting for "Somebody else to do it". Stick with the stickers, those are the ones who have stuck around and are enjoying sobriety. Sobriety doesn't change having good days and bad days, it's just that now we can have a bad day and remember that it'll change before we know it. Recovery means change. Resentment; recycled anger. Live in the now. Some may get to A.A. because they see the light but most get to A.A. because they feel the heat. May we never forget that in extending the hand of A.A. we survive. By saying we are alcoholics, we are constantly reminding ourselves that we are in recovery, not cured. Just because we are no longer newcomers and are sponsoring others doesn't mean we should never feel disturbed. If we do not take A.A.'s Twelve Steps seriously and in full how can we expect any results from them. Alcohol is a depressant rather than a stimulant. Alcoholism has been labeled as a "family illness" in that each member of the family feels the impact of having an alcoholic parent or spouse. What a person shares in a meeting is not to be discussed outside the meeting. Alcohol-ISM: I, Self, Me // I Sponsor Myself // Internal Spiritual Malady (or Maladjustment)// Incredibly Short Memory // InSide Me // I Sabotage Myself. The Twelve Steps are a plan for living, not just for discussion. "If God can solve the age-old riddle of alcoholism, He can solve your problems too." pg. 116 This AA oldtimer walks into a meeting room early, and sees a newcomer sitting at the table. The oldtimer says "Hey, how are you doing?" The newcomer says "Oh, I'm doing okay, under the circumstances." The oldtimer says "What are you doing under there?" For the alcoholic, surrender is marked by the admission of being powerless over alcohol. To change our lives we must change our thinking. We helped others by passing on what we did, what we read, and what actions we took. The simplicity of our program never changes--what works is constant; trust in God, clean house, and work with others. If we can't figure out how to make amends, just turn it over to God, in time, there will be an answer, there will be a way. The monkey may be off our backs, but let us not forget, the circus had not left town. We can visit A.A. meetings for years, be a member of our Fellowship for years, but until we have a spiritual awakening, emotional sobriety will elude us. Diet, rest and play are an important part of staying sober. Please may we keep in mind: It is not what I like but what is best for the group. One of the main differences between an active alcoholic and a recovering alcoholic can be expressed as a matter of tense;, the active alcoholic tends to live in the future or in the past, the sober alcoholic strives to live in the present. We need power each day, because we get weary, but with A.A. as our structure and God as our source of strength, we can face life without taking a drink. A.A. history statement: God was the cure for our drunkenness. A drink will only make a situation worse, never ever better. A.A. gives meaning and purpose to the individual and a way to be of service to others. Anyone's relapse is an important learning experience for all. "My gratitude to A.A. grows deeper each day I am sober" pg. 420 Our entire A.A. program rests upon the principle of mutual trust; we trust God, we trust A.A., and we trust each other. Permanent sobriety can be attained only by a most revolutionary change in our lives and outlook--by a spiritual awakening that can banish the desire to drink. Having a lot of knowledge of our Steps, A.A. and our Traditions is not really worth a darn if not put into practice. Without sobriety we have nothing.
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AA gives us an opportunity to recreate ourselves, with God's help, one day at a time. --Rufus K. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. --Franklin D. Roosevelt We stay sober and clean together - one day at a time! God says that each of us is worth loving. |
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Bend your knees not your elbows.
No alcoholic dies in vain, they carry a message to other alcoholics. We may have very few material things, but we can be rich in terms of spiritual values, enjoying life. Rationalization and denial are part of the alcoholic's illness. A.A. has no fixed address, we take it with us wherever we go. The past is a place of reference, not a place of residency. Freedom comes from surrendering. We judge ourselves by our intentions, others judge us by our actions. Alcoholism is a threefold illness; mental, physical and spiritual. The best time to begin working the A.A. program is right now. Recovery = work in progress. We only have to change one thing - EVERYTHING Thank God for A.A. A.A. has no fixed address; we can take it with us where ever we go. A smile in a meeting may be just the message a newcomer may need. A.A. got started by one drunk talking to another about alcohol, and the process still works and that is how A.A. grows. A.A. has a wrench to fit every nut that walks through the door, the 12 Steps are the key to getting that wrench to work right. A.A. is a Fellowship founded upon equality--one drunk talking to, never down, to another. A.A. is the only place where you can walk into a room full of strangers and reminisce. Alcohol was our failed solution to our problem so when taken away we still have the problem, us. A.A. may not add years to our lives, but it certainly adds life to our years. A.A. works upon the novel principle that a recovered alcoholic can reach and treat a fellow sufferer as no one else can and in so doing, the recovered alcoholic maintains his own sobriety. Alcohol produces more misery than it relives, it causes more accidents than it prevents; it costs more money and breaks more hearts and minds than any other one substance known to man. Alcohol has a definite color scheme; it gives you a red nose, a black eye, a white liver, a yellow streak, and a blue outlook. If our lives didn’t get better, why would we want to stay sober, if all we had to look forward to was restlessness, irritability and discontentment, why do the work, A.A. offers so much more than just freedom from alcohol, it offers a new way of living, far more beautiful than anything we ever could have imagined, that’s why we take the Steps, and that’s why we take them again and again. Alcoholics can be so rich that they can buy anything, but there’s 1 thing they cannot afford, anger. (I'll add resentments also.) Alcoholics refuse to give up a life of failure without a fight. Alcoholics do not deliberately try to drink themselves into trouble, but trouble seems to be the inevitable consequence of an alcoholic’s drinking Alcoholism has been labeled as a family illness in that each member of the family feels the impact of having an alcoholic parent or spouse. Alcoholism, if fought by self-well will always win. Alcoholism is a physical and a mental illness which only a spiritual experience will conquer. Alcoholism seeks precedence over our relationship with God. If our lives are to be changed, our thinking needs to be changed. If all else fails, why not try God? Amends are best made to our loved ones by restoring the love, confidence and respect they once had for us by the action of right living today. The most convincing message we can carry to other alcoholics is our own example of contented sobriety. It is never to late to start. You recover at your own rate, not in your time, In God's time. Don't count time, make time count. TIME = Things I Must Earn When I was using I walked 25 miles into the forest, One day at a time....the 12 steps will lead me out. I need to be in a meeting for 1 1/2 hours so I can learn to live the other 22 1/2 hours. If you don't keep coming, then your going to keep going. Clean time does not equal recovery. Please be patient, You are not a finished product, God is not through with you. Addiction is a disease of isolation and loneliness. The suffering of an alcoholic is not only the suffering of an individual but of all those related to him, especially those in his immediate family. The insanity of alcoholism begins before the first drink. We must look inside to find our problem. The 12 Steps and 12 Traditions are like 24 wrenches to fit any size nut that walks in through the doors of our program. Mark Kostew For the newcomer: "Enjoy your ride on the pink cloud, but make sure you`ve got a parachute on, so that when the cloud dissipates, you can float to earth, not crash and burn". "AA saved my life, and has given me life to live." "Coffee maker is the best job in AA." "I ain`t what I could be, ain`t what I should be, but I`m alot better than I used to be." "The God in me recognizes the God in you." "If you can help - help. If you can`t - don`t hurt."
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AA gives us an opportunity to recreate ourselves, with God's help, one day at a time. --Rufus K. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. --Franklin D. Roosevelt We stay sober and clean together - one day at a time! God says that each of us is worth loving. |
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Heard At a meeting....
"It's not old behavior if I'm still doing it." "If you're looking to have an image in AA, look around at the meetings you go to and take a look at whom you're trying to impress." "An alcoholic is a person who wants to be held while isolating." "A treatment center is where you go and pay $15,000 to find out that AA meetings are free." "This is a 'One Day At A Time' program. If you're clean and sober today, you're tied for first place in AA." "I often obsessively pursue feeling good.. no matter how bad it makes me feel." "When I was new, I didn't think I had any obsessions until I started thinking about it. Then it was all I could think about." "If you want to quit [drinking], then you are going to have to quit [drinking]." "I would rather go through life sober, believing I am an alcoholic, than go through life drunk, trying to convince myself that I am not." "Resentments are like stray cats: if you don't feed them, they'll go away." "It is the great obsession of every Al-Anon, that someday he or she will learn to control and enjoy their drinker." "I drank when I was happy. I drank when I was unhappy. Actually, I am a reason to drink." "I can't do God's will my way." "In order to change the way we feel, we need to change the way we act." "The good news is you get your emotions back; the bad news is you get your emotions back." "There is only one way to coast, and that is downhill." "The difference between the problem drinker and the alcoholic is this: a) when the alcohol is taken away from the problem drinker, the problem goes away. b) when the alcohol is taken away from the alcoholic, the problem begins. Newcomer: "How do I know how many meetings I should attend each week?" Old-timer: "Gradually cut back until you drink. Then you'll know." "How come if alcohol kills millions of brain cells, it never killed the ones that made me want to drink?" AA = Altered Attitudes AA = Attitude Adjustment ABC = Acceptance, Belief, Change ANONYMOUS = Actions Not Our Names Yield Maintenance Of Unity & Service ACTION = Any Change Toward Improving One's Nature BATH = Behavior, Attitude, Thinking, and Habits BEST = Been Enjoying Sobriety Today? BS = Before Sobriety BUT = Being Unconvinced Totally CARE = Comforting And Reassuring Each other CALM = Can Anger Leave Me? CHAOS = Can't Handle Another Overwhelming Situation CHANGE = Choosing Honesty Allows New Growth Everyday CRAP = Carry Resentments Against People DEAD = Drinking Ends All Dreams EDI not DIE Easy Does It not Does It Easy EGO Easing God Out FEEL = Feel, Experience, Express, Let go FEAR = Forgetting Everything's All Right FEAR = Fools Every Alcoholic Repeatedly FEAR = Forever Escaping And Retreating FEAR = Failure Expected And Received FAITH = Finding Answers In The Heart FAITH = Found Always In Trusting Him FAITH = For An Instant Trust Him FINE = Feeling Insecure, Numb and Empty F I N E = Free, Independent, New and Energetic GIFT = God Is Forever There GIFTS = Getting It From The Steps GRACE = Gently Releasing All Conscious Expectations GOD = Give Others Dignity HALT = Honestly, Actively, Lovingly, Tolerant HELP = Hope, Encouragement, Love and Patience HOPE = Happy Our Program Exists HOPE = Hearing Other Peoples' Experience HOPE = Heart Open; Please Enter HOPE = Help Open People's Eyes HOPE = Hang On, Pray Everyday HEART = Healing, Enjoying, And Recovering, Together HOW = Honest, Open-minded and Willing HOW NOW = Honest Open-minded, Willing. No Other Way! ISM = I, Self, Me ISM = I Sponsor Myself KISS = Keep It Simple, Surrender LET GO Leave Everything To God, Okay? NEW = Nothing Else Worked PEACE = Providing Experienced Attitude Changes Every day PEACE = Praying Energetically Always Creates Ease PUT = Patience, Understanding, Tolerance PROGRAM = People Relying On God Relay A Message PUSH = Pray Until Something Happens PACE = Positive Attitudes Change Everything RACING = Real Alcoholics Centered Inward Needing God STEPS = Solutions To Every Problem in Sobriety SWAT = Surrender, Willingness, Acceptance, Trust SOBER = Simply Observe Bill's Exemplary Recovery SIT = Stay In Today SOBRIETY = Stay Off Booze Recovery Is Everything To You S P O N S O R = Sober Person Offering Newcomer Support Of Recovery THINK = The Happiness I Never Knew TRUST = Teaching Recovery Using Steps and Traditions TRUST = Try Relying Upon The Steps and Traditions TEAM = Together Everyone Achieves More TIME = Things I Must Earn WHO = Willingness, Honesty, Openmindedness WHO ME? = Willingness,Honesty, Open-mindedness,Must Exist WISDOM = When Into Self, Discover Our Motives WILLING = When I Live Life, I Need God YET = You'll End There YANA = You Are Not Alone Know God; Know peace. No God; No peace. H O P E = Heart Open; Please Enter. If we hear something in a meeting we don't like, maybe we should take a real close look at it to see why. A smile in a meeting may be just the message a newcomer may need. If you think staying away from the first one is difficult, try staying away from the second one. Ain't it wonderful to be sober? How many of us came to A.A. because we felt the heat but stayed to experience the warmth. Anyone can stay sober at an A.A. meeting -- it's the time in between that counts. A.A. is for those who want it, not need it. Alcoholics are not bad people trying to be good but sick people who need to get well. 13 stepping = Step 1 + Step 12 (or my live is unmanageable and I want to share it with you. All of A.A.'s suggestions are free, the ones we don't take are the ones we wind up paying for. If we want to be sober tomorrow we need to stay away from the first drink today. Contact another member before taking a drink, not after. Having an advisor is not the same as having a sponsor. No one in a A.A. meeting is offended by a lack of profanity. There are no big shots in A.A., nor are there little shots. From coffeemaker to delegate there is something for everyone in A.A. service, and service work is as essential to recovery as it is to A.A.'s longevity. God has given us this day to use as we wish, A.A. shows us how to live it without a drink. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results It's never too early for the Steps, because the point is to try and practice them to the best of our ability, not to master them when we think we are well enough to truly understand them all. Listen to the similarities, not the differences. Nobody gets to A.A. by mistake. Recovery gives us hope for brighter days. When we surrender we don't weaken ourselves, on the contrary, we strengthen ourselves. The sun can't shine every day but if we can stand the rain, we'll see the sun again, if we stay sober. We go to A.A. to live our lives, not live our lives to go to A.A. HJF = Happy, Joyous, and FREE! ALCOHOLIC SLANG AFGO - A f--king growth opportunity Beer Thirty - Slang for any 1/2 on the hour we used to drink Big Book Thumper - A regular who knows the Big Book inside and out BOHICA - Bend over - here it comes again Boxed - A person thrown out of the house with their boxed up belongings Camel Chip - A chip signifying a person with long-term sobriety Carpet Muncher - Oral Sex Cellar Dweller - An alcoholic who prefers to stay in self-misery Check Up From The Neck Up - Go to a meeting Chip - AA chip marking certain amount of continuous sobriety i.e. 30 days Cleaning House - Getting your life in order Clean Side Of Street - Getting your life in order Denial Aisle - A small table of people who talk during meetings instead of listening Double Dip - Speaking twice at the same AA meeting Drip Dry U - Rehab Dry Drunk - A non-drinking alcoholic who does not follow the program Elevator - How low one goes before getting into recovery GOD - Group of drunks God Can Look Around Corners - Principle which suggests that God can do things we cannot Going Out - An alcoholic who goes back out to drink again GOYA - Get off your a$$ HALT - Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired Hand of AA - An alcoholic reaching out to AA for a helping hand Heavy Metal - A 1-year chip Liquid Courage - The false belief one gets after substantial drinking Meeting - Two of more AA's getting together to discuss recovery Meeting Before the Meeting - Informal gatherings before official meetings Meeting After the Meeting - Informal gatherings after official meetings Mickey - Short for Mickey Finn. An alcoholic drink mixed with a strong sedative ,typically without the knowledge of the drinker. Newcomer - An alcoholic who has less than 30 days of continuous sobriety Normie - A term used by alcoholics to describe "normal" people Nudge From The Judge - Court ordered to go to AA Old Tape - Memories in your head that make you think drinking was good Pink Cloud - A warm fuzzy feeling that "newcomers" feel in early recovery Pity Pot - Self indulgent attitude Playground - Places where we socialized before recovery Playmates - People we used to socialize with before recovery Plug In The Jug - Putting the cap on the bottle and walking away forever Poor me, poor me, pour me a drink - The pity which precedes the taking of the first drink Relapse - An alcoholic who goes back out and takes another drink Retread - An alcoholic who has relapsed and returned to the program Running and Gunning - Active drinking Senior Sober - A recovering alcoholic with a lot of sobriety Serenity by Injection - Attempt to have sex with a brand new member Slip A Mickey - To surreptitiously add a sedative to someone's alcoholic drink Slippery Slope - Doing things that might cause you to go out and drink Stinking Thinking - An alcoholic's false belief that he/she may be correct when in fact it may be a stupid idea Suicide - Suicide: A permanent solution to a temporary problem. Suit Up/Show Up - Get dressed and attend an AA meeting Tape - Remembering previous events (e.g. replay the tape) Three Hots and a Cot - Jail term for three mails and a bed 13th Step - Dating someone in the program Wet Drunk - A practicing alcoholic White Nuckle - Trying to stay sober without the help of a program Wine O'Clock - Slang for any hour of the day we used to drink Whiner Chip - Chip representing 18 months sobriety Yesterday Is History Tomorrow is Mystery - Live in the Moment If we don’t introduce newcomers to the Big Book; how will they know what they don’t know? If we are not part of the solution we are part of the problem. If we feel the urge for a drink, we neither yield nor resist, we merely put off taking that particular drink until tomorrow. If we focus on the problem, the problem grows, and if we focus on the solution, the solution grows: the solution, sponsorship, continuous working of the Steps, and service work. Turning our will over to the care of God is vital for us, it is surely something to do with all sincerity, for recovery is a life and death matter. If we have emotional sobriety, then thank God for it and to keep it, we must give it away. If we have 4 problems and take a drink then we have 5 problems. If we stop doing the things that keep us in A.A., we’ll go back to doing the things that brought us into A.A. If we lean too heavily on people, they will sooner or later fail us, for they are human, too. If we feel restless, edgy, anxious, or unhappy, we’ve got some more work to do and should begin now, if we’re content, serene, and peaceful, we should continue the work we’re doing. When we stop changing, we stop growing. Alcoholics are known to be "fast forgetters" due to our obsession. Alcoholics do not seek normal alcohol intoxication, they seek anesthetic oblivion. Alcoholics not in recovery are very hungry and don't realize it; they are starving for spiritually. Amends = change. Anonymity in A.A. makes us all equal. Any alcoholic capable of honestly facing his problems in the light of our experiences can recover, provided he does not close his mind to all spiritual concepts. Because of God's love for us, no one is beyond recovery. Being physically dry and mentally drunk is dangerous territory for alcoholics. Sponsoring requires patience.
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AA gives us an opportunity to recreate ourselves, with God's help, one day at a time. --Rufus K. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. --Franklin D. Roosevelt We stay sober and clean together - one day at a time! God says that each of us is worth loving. |
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The A.A. slogans are shorthand for our 12 Steps.
We did a lot of exercising when we were drinking: hitting the bottle, beating ourselves up, bending the rules, stretching the truth, jogging our memory, running into trouble, jumping to conclusions, stepping on toes, climbing the walls, dodging responsibility, pushing our luck, pulling the wool over people's eyes, walking over people, carrying a grudge, throwing fits, and picking up the pieces. We must work the program for ourselves alone--not for our wife, children, friends, or for our job. Every new day is a new opportunity to live as we should. Anger, resentments, jealousy, envy, self-pity, hurt pride--all led to the bottle. A.A. is a place where we share. I can have complete serenity at this very moment...if I live in denial. We came to AA to save our ass, and found out our soul was attached . Hope Unity Gratitude Serenity not drugs HOPE is Helping Other People Everyday! Just For Today... You have to be willing to get rid of the life you have planned, so to have the life that is waiting for you. No matter what - you don't have to pick up. Until the pain gets strong enough, there will be no change. It came to pass; it didn't come to stay. Humble people don't think less of themselves, they just think of themselves less. Resentments are like peeing your pants--they don't affect anyone quite as much as you! May your lost dreams of yesterday become the reality of your tomorrow! Hit your knees..... not the bottle!" I can't fix anyone but me, and that's a full time job!" Recovery is an inside job Just for today. Think Think Think First things first. How important is it? Keep an open mind. Keep it simple. Live and let live. Have an attitude of gratitude. Mind your own business. Progress not perfection. Change the things I can. One day at a time. Wonderful things happen One day at a time Listen and learn. Let go and let God Easy does it. This too shall pass. Great expectations can lead to great disappointments. Al-Anon doesn't give us the choice between feeling good or feeling bad- it gives us the choice between feeling and not feeling. Learn from the mistakes of others. You can't live long enough to make them all yourself If it is to be, it is up to me. If you think handling everything is too much, try letting go. Fear is a darkroom where negatives are developed. Take what you like and leave the rest. Measure yourself by your best moments not your worst. Remember yesterday, dream of tomorrow, but live for today. The longest journey starts with the first step. Recovery is a process, not an event-it takes time. Recovery is an inside job. You must be present to win. Each new day offers a new opportunity One hour at a time.. One day at a time.. One step at a time Wonderful things happen.. One Day At A Time A.A. Slogans "It's alcohol-ISM, not alcohol-WASM !" "A.A. also stands for. "Attitude Adjustment." "I can only carry the message, I can"t carry the drunk!" Seven missed meetings makes one weak. Happiness is not getting what you want, it is wanting what you get. Self-will can get me what I want right now, God's will can provide what I need for eternity. The only difference between stumbling blocks and stepping stones is how we use them. Being Recovered from Alcoholism is like getting a Gunshot wound. You can recover from it but it does NOT make you bulletproof. You can recover from alcoholism but it does not make you Immune from Alcohol. HALT: Don't get too Hungry, too Angry, too Lonely, or too Tired!! It's never to late to be what you might have been. George Eliot (12 life in recovery magazine). There ain't no big deals! If you do what you always did, you will get what you always got. or If you keep doin' what your doin' you'll keep gettin' what your gettin' No matter how far off the path we've stumbled, we're no more than 12 steps away from the solution! Thoughts are not things and feelings are not facts; they only have the power we give them. Looking for God is like a fish looking for water. Listen to the message.. not the messenger Feel, Deal and the Heal (Feel it, Deal with it and then Heal from it) Hope is knowing the good in us will overcome the bad. Happy, Joyous & Free God speaks to us all a little differently, hoping we'll tell each other. Even if I'm on the right track, if I don't move I'll get run over Don't give up five minutes before the miracle Do not be discouraged. There is no situation too difficult to be bettered and No unhappiness to great to be lessened. Don't take everything personally. When you feel left out, reach out. Have patience with all things, but first with yourself. Serenity comes when I stop expecting and start accepting. Today is the tomorrow that I worried about yesterday. You cannot deal with the alligators until you drain the swamp and get out of the mud. Glance at the past, but don't stare at it. You can't change yesterday, but you can ruin today by worrying about tomorrow. Wherever you go- there you are. To live or just exist- the choice is yours. Focus on the program-not the problem. One needn't make a crisis out of an incident. When you're flat on your back, there's no way to look but up. As you go through life, make this your goal- watch the donut not the hole. No is a complete sentence. It's hard to be hateful when you're being grateful. Fear is not a shortcoming- it's an emotion. Our reaction to it can be the shortcoming. It helps to learn the difference between being responsible to others and being responsible for others. Ulcers are what you get from mountain climbing on mole hills. If you find yourself in a rut, stop digging. Never walk unescorted through your own mind- it can be a dangerous neighborhood. The way to get anywhere is to start from where you are. If you want serenity, put your Higher Power between you & your problem. Expectations are premeditated resentments. Burn the idea into the consciousness of every man that he can get well regardless of anyone or anything. Are we carrying the message or the mess? Quality...not quantity "Part of what works for me is to remember..... I am not the only person who has ever gone through any of this. Therefore I am not alone."—302oiler # We are as unique as snowflakes, and as common as blades of grass. # AA richens the broth in the soup of life. # A Slip is when Sobriety Loses It's Priority. # There is no elevator to serenity, you must use the steps. # "Alcohol was the lubricant that minimized the friction in all my relationships." (From Joe's story in the book The Courage to Change.) # One is too many, and a thousand not enough. (Thanks to George W. for reminding me of this one.) Are we so impressed with how long someone has been sober that it over rides their quality of sobriety? On his twentieth A.A. anniversary, an old-timer turns to his sponsor, gloating, "Ha! And you thought I'd never make it!" The sponsor, with thirty years of sobriety, coolly answers, "Who says you've made it?" As our knowledge of God grows, so will our strength of recovery. Are we walking towards a drink or away from one? Be with sober alcoholics and become and stay sober, be with drinkers and, well, you figure it out. Before we say, "We can't", say, "We'll try". A fellow said he came to A.A. because of back problems-to get his wife off his back, to get his boss of his back, to get his creditors off his back, etc. By continuing with our personal inventories, we allow the seeds of recovery to take deeper root. By standing together, we form a shield against a relapse. If you do what we do you'll get what we got.... If you do what you did, you'll get what you got..... I have to get into action. Sitting in an AA meeting doesn't make me sober anymore than sitting in a garage makes me a car. HJF = Happy, Joyous, and FREE! The steps did for me the very thing I kept hoping alcohol would do for me --- they gave me the peace and serenity I had been looking for in a bottle. By sharing the program with others we reinforce how important it is to us. Contented sobriety is contingent on spiritual fitness. En route to her first sober vacation, a women newcomer confessed her apprehension to her husband. The idea of being on a plane without a drink was unthinkable. She came through the flight without incident and was absolutely floored to be met with a large banner in the airport saying. "A.A. Welcomes You." She grabbed her husband's arm and pointed to the sign, being concerned about her anonymity being broken. He looked at it for a moment, turned to her, and said quietly, "Dear, it stands for American Airlines." Do our actions back up our words? Do yourself a big favor, STUDY the Big Book. Don't be afraid to ask others for help. Ever wonder why as soon as we begin to learn about the Program we want to make it complicated? Even when we cannot see a way out, we must never give up hope. Every alcoholic will eventually quit drinking, but it's better to do it when we're still alive. Every part of our lives should be important to us: our families and friends as well as our recovery and careers. First things first: God, us, our families, ???. Freedom from alcohol results in many other freedoms. The quickest way to get on your feet ............. is to ......... Get on your knees. If we stop doing the things that keep us in A.A., we’ll go back to doing the things that brought us into A.A. If our lives are to be changed, our thinking needs to be changed. PRAY = Put Recovery Around You Rationalize = Rational Lies RELAPSE = Recovery Exists Life And Program Seem Empty SOLUTION = Saving Our Lives Using The Inventories Of Needed Steps Relapse IS NOT a requirement BUT It IS a reality. STAR = Start Talking About Recovery TIME = Things I Must Earn TRUST = Try Relying Upon Steps Today SPONSOR = Service Person Offering Newcomers Suggestions On Recovery Keep GRATITUDE Up front !!!!
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YET = You’re Eligible Too YET = You’ll End-up There ISM = Incredibly Short Memory S T E P S = Solutions To Every Problem, Sober. SLIP - Sobriety Loses It's Priority Stick with the winners. We try to hang out with people who have good attitudes and some clean and sober time in the program. Hearing Others Personal Experiences If you want to quit drinking, you are going to have to quit drinking. The secret to the AA program is the first three words on page 112 of the Big Book. Before I came into AA, I was dead, but I did not know enough to lay down. The good news is you get your emotions back; the bad news is you get your emotions back. My head is like a bad neighborhood and I shouldn't go in there alone. I'm not going to give anybody free rent in my head. Uncover...Discover...Discard. The power behind me is greater than the problem in front of me. Having a resentment is like drinking poison and expecting someone else to die. Expectations are resentments waiting to happen. If you keep doing what you're doing - you'll keep getting what you're getting. Turn up a stereo to full volume then unplug it. In 2, 5,10 or 20 years later - if you plug it in again, the stereo will come on full volume. That's what alcoholism is like. We come to the program thinking we are at the end of the line, whereas we are just at the start of a journey. When I turned myself over to God, I took my life out of the hands of an idiot. Where God guides, God provides. Worry is just negative goal-setting. Stinking thinking leads to drinking. Carry the message, not the mess. Isolation is the Darkroom where I develop all my Negativity! The first step adds years to my life, the rest add life to my years. I am the black sheep of the family. I came to Alcoholics Anonymous and found the rest of the herd. It works if you work it, so work it cause you're worth it. Just remember to B-R-E-A-T-H-E... Breathe in God, breathe out self. H-A-L-T DON'T BE TOO: HUNGRY - ANGRY - LONELY - TIRED "BUT FOR THE GRACE OF GOD" "God is the only constant." --Ruth Casey "No one can make you feel inferior without your permission." --Eleanor Roosevelt "Cease to inquire what the future has in store, and take as a gift whatever the day brings forth." --Horace "Today, I will have some fun with life, with recovery, with people, and with my day." --The Language Of Letting Go "It pleases God that those rowing the boat are being of service ——— even to those rocking the boat." "God, give me the courage to follow my heart. Teach me how to experience more joy in my life." --Melody Beattie The solution is simple. The solution is spiritual. A B C = Acceptance, Belief Change
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Alcohol is a solvent; it will remove everything from your life.
If you want to quit drinking, you are going to have to quit drinking. - Mary G. I can't do His will my way. - Mary G. An alcoholic is a person who wants to be held while he's isolating. - Mary G. This is a 'One Day at a Time' program. If you are clean and sober today, you are tied for first place in AA. - Mary G. If drinking is interfering with your work, you're probably a heavy drinker. If work is interfering with your drinking, you're probably an alcoholic. - Mary G.
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AA gives us an opportunity to recreate ourselves, with God's help, one day at a time. --Rufus K. When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. --Franklin D. Roosevelt We stay sober and clean together - one day at a time! God says that each of us is worth loving. |
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First we put down the anesthesia; then we operate. - Renee M.
I sum up Step 3 as "Fire myself, hire GOD". - Renee M. Put down the drink and pick up the program. The longer a burden is carried, the heavier it gets - so TODAY - I choose to live a life of serenity and not a life of regrets... Sobriety is not between you and me - It's between a God of my understanding and me. To thine own self be true. Sharing God's gifts with others - feels good. Possibly His little way of motivating us to continue to do it.
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Think the same - React the same - Say the same - Expect the same - and you will feel the same - Soldier Billy.
Don't expect and you will not be disappointed - Soldier Billy. Resentment makes resentment - Soldier Billy. Drinking on a problem is like trying to put a fire out with petrol - Soldier Billy. Resentment - The best cure is to ask yourself: Have I ever done what I am resenting that person for? - Soldier Billy. I have never met anyone who came into AA because the price of alcohol was raised - Soldier Billy.
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The very things that once destroyed me, have become the very foundations of who I am today in recovery.
I put down the drink to get closer to GOD. If God takes us to it, he will take us through it. Prior to coming to AA, when I told my family I was not going to ever drink again.... my intentions were good. But because of what they saw, it was difficult for them to hear what I was saying. The task in front of you is never greater than the power behind you. No human power could have relieved our alcoholism. Remember, nothing is going to happen to you today that you and God cannot handle together. ODAAT
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An alcoholic is a person who wants to be held while he's isolating. - Pandora N.
Hit your knees... not the bottle! Keep coming back... it works if you LIVE it! Without Him, I can't.... without me, He won't! The first thing you put in front of your sobriety is the second thing you'll lose.
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One day at a time, is like building a house one brick at a time, if you don't take another drink until the day you die, you would have built a castle.
Then, I lived a life of Hell, Got Sober, Now I live A HELLUVA LIFE. You can take the rum out of fruit cake, but you still have fruit cake! "I'm sober today cause I ain't drank no liquor today." Harold B. When I take the "me" out of blame; all I have is bla, bla, bla...
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Don't explain why you can't drink just say your allergic to alcohol and people leave you alone put to rest the debate... I'm allergic to alcohol, I break out in felonies....
Relationship: Really Exciting Love Affair Turns Into Outrageous Nightmare Sobriety Hangs In Peril - Carrie C. You can never be Perfect BUT; you can ALWAYS be better! - Mike P. There are no Big Deals in AA. ( Tom G. ) PS: Never limit your future by only doing what you have done in the past! Joy isn't the absence of pain - it's the presence of God. ( Pandora )
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S. I. T. STAY IN TODAY !!! (Jan)
Today is the Tomorrow I worried about Yesterday (Ken) Resentment is like taking poison in an effort to kill your enemy! (Cathy) GOD always answers prayers. He doesn't always say YES, He doesn't always say NO, sometimes he says YOU GOTTA BE KIDDING!?! (Chris) Your mind is like a "bad neighborhood" - don't go there alone. (Ashley)
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