Everything happens for a reason we may not like the fact that it does, but this doesn't change the fact that things still do happen. Like it or not things are always going to be happening, this is what life is all about and it's on going, always changing and keeps changing and keeping up with the fact that it is, is challenging for everyone and there's never a break from this even when we think there's nothing happening it still is. As overwhelming as this can be for all of us to realize when we first begin our recovery, it is still better for us to be part of all this than it is for us trying to avoid this. One thing we've learned no matter what the reason may be for things to be happening until we acknowledge that they are the same thing keeps happening over and over in different ways that we can't help but to know are all tied together in some way. Something is trying to reach us through all that is happening all around us, if only we can learn to understand the reason that everything is happening is to make things better even when it doesn't seem like it is, but in the end we all see that this is the reason why everything has always been happening.