By all of us banding together who have this problem of ours we are all able to do what none of us could do by ourselves. There's something about all of us being in recovery that can't be explained. Just because we can't explain it doesn't change the fact that it does work for all of us at solving this problem of ours like nothing else is able to. There's a kind of strength that we all get when we come into recovery and as long as we stay close to recovery we will have this strength endlessly. The most amazing thing about this is that even though we all can sense this happens when we come together there are some of us who will still not allow ourselves to be in recovery. All of us who are doing this are cutting ourselves off from recovery and are being too hard on ourselves by doing this. None of us will ever be able to have what it is that all of us need and get by being in recovery, and most assuredly when all of us are doing that we're all signing our own death certificates.