We would all like to just have this problem of ours go away and leave us all alone. None of us asked for this problem in the first place and all of us don't like the way we are because we have it. All this is out of our hands and there's nothing any of us can do about the fact that we have this problem. But there is one thing that we all can do when it comes to us having this problem that will make things different for all of us. In fact it's the first thing we need to do so that we can learn how to live with this problem and that is to ask for help. It's hard for all of us to do this because we all think we should be able to do this on our own. None of us can or will we ever be able to by ourselves learn how to live with this problem on our own. This is what keeps this problem going for all of us, is us thinking we can fix it ourselves, we can't. When we all finally ask for help with having this problem we all will be amazed at how much help there is out there for all of us and how well it actually works for us when we do finally ask for help, and then we will all wish we all had asked for help earlier when it comes to all of us having this problem.