This problem of ours that we all have isn't a problem for any of us until we say it is, and for most of us we can't even begin to do that. What usually happens with us all is we go along the best we can for as long as we can until something happens and it always does, for those of us who have this problem there's no escaping this even though we all tried as hard we could. When this does happen to us it's like getting our bubble popped and we think it's the end of the world, but it's not. But it could mark the beginning of the time when we're ready and want to do something about having this problem. Some will and some won't, they'll just keep going on to the bitter end saying they don't have a problem, or that there's nothing they can do about it. One thing that is certain for all of us who have this problem that's easy for anyone to see is things will continue to get worse until we do something about having this problem. This is where we all can use recovery to help us after we get our bubble popped, but until we're ready to say that we have a problem, and that there is something we can do about having it, recovery is of absolutely no use to any of us.