The solution is simple but not easy to do, but it always works for everyone who is willing to try it. Only those of us who for a variety of reasons won't try, they will be the only ones that will never get to know what it's like to be in recovery. None of us have to be one of them and all that any of us have to do so that we won't end up being one of them is to realize we don't really know what our problem is, and that because we don't, what it is that we've been doing isn't ever going to be able to work to solve the problem we have. The next thing for us to know about having this problem and about ourselves is that we won't ever be able to get the answer to this problem on our own, because of how this problem works for all who have it. Finally we need to allow ourselves to be helped by those who have gone before us in recovery so they can teach us how we can get recovery for ourselves. If we're able to do these things then we too will be able to get recovery and this never fails to work for anyone who can do these things. It's only when we're not able to do these things that we're not going to be able to do something about having this problem.