Life can be so confusing for all of us especially when we are new to recovery. As we all go through the many changes that we have had to go through we're going to need some help in sorting this all out. It can help if we let ourselves be open to the many new things that will now become part of our life because we are now in recovery. In time this all settles into a new norm for all of us, and when that happens we'll see that all of us are far better off than we were before, and in a much better place because of being in recovery. We'll then be able to make some sense out of the confusing way that we all had to live without knowing what our problem was. We still don't know everything there is to know about our problem, but that's no longer important to any of us because we've been able to find a way to live with our problem because of being in recovery. One that makes sense to us all and isn't that confusing for any of us.