There's two things that keep all of us from being able to get the help we need with this problem, and it's the same for all of us. By the time we all get to recovery most of us arrive with a big ego, not everyone with a big ego has our problem, but all of us who do have this problem we all have one and it keeps all of us from being able to get the help we all need with having this problem. This is the only place that we will ever be able to get the help we all need with this problem, it has to come from outside of ourselves, and all of us find this by being in recovery. When we do, all of us think it's not the type of help that we actually need or want, when recovery really is the only thing that's ever proven to work for any of us with this problem. In order for all of us to be able to get that help we all are going to have to do our part by being willing to pocket our own pride and ego so that we can have that help that has to come from outside of ourselves, and we all find it in recovery and this is the only thing that's ever really worked for all of us who suffer from having our problem